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Aivlys's avatar

Sorry Ed, but you must not be familiar with the maxim: When men get older, they look like Sean Connery; when women get older, they look like.....Sean Connery.

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Dominic's avatar

Isn’t the big difference between male vs female desirability as we age the relative importance of physical attraction? Women are comparatively more drawn to power, wealth etc - not just in a gold-digging sense but actual sexual attraction.

I used to work in one of the ‘magic circle’ law firms and it was very common for otherwise unremarkable men in their mid 40s complete with paunch to be bonking mid-20s Oxbridge grad blonde stunnas. The key factor was that, within the firm only, the partners were treated like minor gods, everyone took their showboating on conference calls seriously etc. They were categorically alpha.

I think it is difficult to imagine the converse, and in fact female partners were disproportionately unmarried - possibly because they found it difficult to meet men whose social status they found attractive (bearing in mind these are people for whom career and income are extremely important).

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